How to get a girlfriend? How to get that special woman in our lives.
You know... the one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair
and a perfect face. She dates the more "adept" guys... but how can you
get her to be your girlfriend?
While men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks, how a
woman finds a man attractive is based mostly on his personality. This
is essential information when you're asking the question of how to get
a girlfriend. A ideal man with the ideal personality is an alpha male
who's confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what
he wants out of life. Re-read that paragraph because that's how you get
girls...that's how to get a girlfriend.
Ironically, what this means then is that the best way to get a
girlfriend and to make her want to stick around is to make her feel
like she has EARNED you.
That's because when you want to know how to get a girlfriend, you
should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a position of
neediness.
So the best attitudes to have towards any one particular woman and how to get her to be your girlfriend are:
How to get a girlfriend attitude #1. Nonchalance.
How to get a girlfriend attitude #2. Non-attachment to whether she
likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but
if not, there are tons of other chicks out there who are equally as
great as she is.)
How to get a girlfriend attitude #3. The bottom line is that a woman
should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge
for her.
In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also eliminate
neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many
women as you can. (You wouldn't believe how easy it is to make friends
with women) This is a great way to "network" and can be a wonderful way
to meet girls and get a girlfriend.
Also date as many women as you can... don't restrict yourself only to dating "that one special girl."
You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind
when you're around the woman you want as your girlfriend is, "God, I
MUST have this girl! She's irreplaceable!" Having an abundance of women
in your life will solve that problem.
Also, whenever a woman (the one you want as your girlfriend) sees that
other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction.
Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof" phenomenon... and
it's much more powerful in women than men.
Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner
of the bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in
action.
By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her.
Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are
LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl
you really like.
If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives
her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that
lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.
So if you want to know how to get a girlfriend you should remember,
place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang
out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for
how to get a girlfriend.
